Social Media 5: Debate in Private, Not on Display

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“Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another: Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away.”  Proverbs 25:9–10

If you have a disagreement with someone, speak to them privately. Social media, however, tempts us to do the opposite. We take our concerns to a public platform, and in the process, we expose more than the issue.  We expose our pride, our impatience, and sometimes even someone else’s reputation.

What could have been handled quietly turns into a spectacle. Instead of resolving conflict, it invites more voices, more heat, and often, more shame. Proverbs warns that when we uncover secrets or argue publicly, we may end up with a reputation we can’t shake off.

Not everything needs to be posted. Not every debate needs an audience. God’s way is quiet, respectful, and private.


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