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Tongue 2: Murmuring

 Audio:   https://youtube.com/shorts/jy1p0aWjsvU?si=N1xFvSmpYOsJUsk7 “And when the people complained, it displeased the Lord…”  (Numbers 11:1) Murmuring doesn’t always sound like loud grumbling. Sometimes it’s just a quiet sigh.   A thought you rehearse over and over again.   A whispered complaint to someone you trust.   But God hears it all. In Numbers 11, the people of Israel murmured against God, not with shouting, but with dissatisfaction. They didn’t trust His timing, His provision, or His ways. And it displeased Him. We may not say,  “God, You’re not doing enough.” But when we murmur in our hearts about our job, our family, our lack, our circumstances, we are saying exactly that. Murmuring is subtle, but it’s serious.   It reveals a heart that is not at rest in God.   A heart that questions His goodness, even if we don’t mean to.   And the scary part?   We can be murmuring even when our mouths are closed. Let’s take murmuring ...

Tongue 1: Casual Comments

Audio:   https://youtube.com/shorts/QEQlibgXTs8?si=WlH8YzrKxP-Y9OlP Rom 12:3   For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.   We don’t always recognize it when it happens. A comment slips out, about how someone spends her money, raises her children, dresses for church, or lives her life.   It sounds harmless, maybe even reasonable.   But underneath it, if we’re honest, is pride. Paul calls it what it is in Romans 12:3. It’s thinking of ourselves  more highly  than we ought.   It’s believing, even subtly, that our way is better. Our standards are higher. Our decisions are wiser. But God calls us to  sobriety of mind : a clear, honest, and humble view of ourselves. Not inflated. Not self-righteous. The truth is: we don’t know the full story of someone else’s journey...

Giving Advise 3: Know Your Jurisdiction

Audio:   https://youtu.be/-tmS8ooEy58?si=2V9ApsIaa-aMudBR There’s a line that many well-meaning Christians sometimes cross: offering advice or correction where it simply isn’t their place. In a world full of strong opinions and quick words, we must be careful not to step outside of our  jurisdiction :  the God-given boundaries of our responsibility and influence. Here are some examples: ~It is not our place to tell someone how to parent their child when we’ve not been asked, nor walked in their shoes.  ~It is not wise to attend another church and begin critiquing their ministry or doctrine as though we were sent there to reform them.  ~ I would not presume to go to a wife and tell her that her husband is wrong.    That is not my role, and it’s not my place.   ~We don’t give unsolicited advice to our parents in their old age, unless there’s a serious decline like dementia where care and safety are involved. The Bible says, “Honour thy father a...

Giving Advise 2: Shall I Speak?

Audio:   https://youtu.be/a_WPdqeX-dY?si=BbDw_Gx6PoU9Lukw A Word of Caution: We are not called to constantly look for opportunities to correct or advise others. In fact, more often than not, unsolicited advice does more harm than good. Unless someone invites your input or the situation is truly urgent and life-impacting, it’s usually wiser to remain silent. But what if, after much prayer, you still feel that God is prompting you to speak? What do you do? Before you say a word, Scripture gives us a wise and loving path to follow. It’s a path that begins not with speaking, but with praying. Not with pointing out faults, but with looking inward. It helps us speak in a way that reflects Christ: full of truth, and full of love. Here’s how we can prepare our hearts when we feel led to speak: 1. Pray First “Pray without ceasing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:17) Before any conversation, especially a hard one, take it to God. Ask Him for wisdom, for the right spirit, and for His timing. Prayer align...

Giving Advise? 1: Edify: Build Them Up!

Audio:  https://youtube.com/shorts/4D8n2EMOPFA?si=R9jl67roqiPChqpT “Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.” 1 Thessalonians 5:11 When someone has fallen, spiritually, emotionally, or morally. They are often already crushed under the weight of guilt. They don’t need a spotlight on their failure. They need a hand to help them rise. As believers, our words carry power. We can speak life or we can deepen wounds. And in those vulnerable moments after someone falls,  what we say or don’t say matters deeply . Encouraging Words Help People Move Forward A few simple phrases can be a lifeline: • “God’s mercy is bigger than this.” • “You’re not alone in this.” • “This isn’t the end of your story.” • “Let’s pray together and ask God to lead you.” • “You can walk forward in grace.    He’s still with you.” These kinds of words don’t ignore sin. They point toward hope, healing, and restoration. Discouraging Words Keep People Stuc...

Cast Down, But Not Destroyed

Audio:   https://youtube.com/shorts/4D8n2EMOPFA?si=R9jl67roqiPChqpT Paul said in 2 Corinthians 4:8–9,  “We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed… persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed.” Paul was like the man in Proverbs 24:16,  “A just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again.” What does it mean to be just? It means to be upright, honest, and principled. Someone who conforms to what is right in both character and conduct. A just person tells the truth, does what is right even when it’s hard, and treats others with integrity. They may fall, but because their foundation is right before God, they rise again. Being just doesn’t make you immune to hardship, but it gives you the strength and reason to get back up. So today, don’t just aim to stand. Aim to stand justly. That’s the secret to rising again.

Faith Over Fixing

Audio:   https://youtube.com/shorts/IXjTkKS6Izc?si=ZWAgFBYh5IG6pvTs In Scripture, we see a powerful truth: the heroes of faith didn’t focus on fixing their problems. They focused on walking with God and  God  took care of the rest. Old Testament Faithfulness Moses  didn’t organize a revolution against Pharaoh. He simply obeyed God, and the Lord parted the sea. “And the LORD said, I have surely seen the affliction of my people… and I am come down to deliver them”  (Exodus 3:7–8). Joshua  didn’t develop a military plan for Jericho. He listened, obeyed, and watched the walls fall. “And it came to pass… that the wall fell down flat”  (Joshua 6:20). Job  didn’t understand why he suffered, but he trusted God through the pain. “Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him”  (Job 13:15.) Joseph  didn’t try to escape slavery or prison. He remained faithful, and God elevated him at the right time. “But the LORD was with Joseph… and that which he did...